New players often struggle with ending casual encounters because they overthink potential relationship trajectories. They meet a girl for an hour, imagine future incompatibilities, and sabotage the sex to avoid imagined drama. I once knew a guy who refused to have sex unless genuinely invested romantically. When I asked if he thought girls fall in love after sex, or if he was ashamed of being a sexual being, he realized his mindset was flawed. Women want sex just as much as men.

Caring about a woman's feelings is foolish because she won't reciprocate that concern for yours. This caring is supplication—a minor league trait. Elite players possess a Spartan warrior mentality, fighting without worrying about outcomes. They evaluate quality only after sex, then decide whether to continue or move on. I don't contemplate future scenarios until after the first orgasm. Only then do I determine if she's worth a second encounter.

If disinterested in a girl after sex, deliver this straightforward message: "You're a nice girl, but I don't think we're a good fit. Let's just be friends." Sixteen words. Send it via text if necessary. That's the only cost to you. No lengthy explanations, no apologies, no drama. Keep it simple and direct.

Counterintuitively, women respect men who only want sex more than men who catch feelings quickly. If you capture her heart instantly, she realizes she could do better. By making your interest short-term explicit, you fulfill her fantasy of an unattainable high-value man. Dumping her after sex improves her life—she gets something to hope for, a painful story bonding her to friends, and potentially access to you again. You're actually doing her a favor.